Don't Let Frustration Fool You! It's Gonna Be Wonderful!

It used to be that whenever I experienced a challenge, conflict or frustration of some sort when working towards a goal, I took that as I sign that I was in the wrong place and I needed to move in a different direction. I am still learning, even today, that the challenges that I experience are a part of the process. Some of the best end results come out of the choas of challenge, frustration and being stuck!

Yesterday I attended a pastoral appreciation for a pastor friend of mine. It was a phenomenal and excellent celebration! Everyone had a really, really good time! However, I know first-hand that even though the event was wonderful, God was glorified and the man of God was most appreciated, the days and weeks of planning leading up to the event got stressful and frustrating for those preparing for the special day. But, however stressful, the behind the scenes challenges that were experienced by the planning committee were not evident in the smooth and spirit-filled celebration on yesterday. What a blessing!

What does this have to do with getting to my destination? The ups and downs and highs and lows that I experience in working towards my goals seem to just be a part of the process. The challenges should in no way be discouraging – even though when they arise, they can generate doubt, heartache, disappointment, frustration, and host of other emotions. In fact, when I reach my destination, I typically look back and say WOW, it took a lot, but look at what was accomplished in spite of what occurred in the process. In working hard and dealing with the challenges of working on a goal, the effort should be evident, the goodness of it all brings God glory, and we all can feel good about the entire experience.

Look at those marriages that seem to be very solid – it isn’t without challenges. Look at those careers that seem to have been very successful – it isn’t without challenges. Look at the many people who have fought off cancer and other diseases – it isn’t without challenges and fight. Everything that looks well on the outside is generally that way because of the blood, sweat, and tears of someone who toiled and experienced stressful challenges. Are you experiencing any challenges in your life? It is simply a part of the process. Just like a bumpy car ride on rugged terrain or unnerving turbulence experienced during a long plane ride. It may not feel good, but learn how to embrace the experience. And, enjoy the ride!