Last week I had a girlfriend to visit with me. She stayed with me an entire week and it was great! Because I live alone, it was great to have someone to joke with, to talk to, to run the streets with, to play tennis with, to simply have companionship. I’m not sure how much fun SHE had because she lives in a house with several people and for her this was a mini vacation where she sought solitude. But, for ME, who lives alone, I was most appreciative to have another person with whom to share the little moments with – finding a new favorite restaurant, doing a community service project, playing tennis in the middle of the day, learning a new skill, stretching the dollar so that you stay within the budget, and a host of other things. I usually do all of these things myself, so it isn’t that I don’t have things going on in my life. But, having a friend to share these things with – however simple and small, was very enjoyable! I can say that I had a really good week. I now understand why God does not intend for us to be alone. God wants us to have abundant life and that means abundant joy! Living alone and being alone "for me" does not bring me as much joy as does sharing with another person.
So… what does this have to do with getting to my destiny?
Well… it is no secret (and I say repeatedly in my blogs) that the most important part of getting to the intended destination is enjoying the journey along the way. I think it is important to know yourself and to know what brings you joy and what makes you happy. When you know what brings you joy and you can pursue it or at least recognize it to open yourself to more of it in your life. Friendship is a beautiful gift. It is something that I will continue to pursue and/or allow in my life while I'm on the journey. Healthy friendships keep me smiling and laughing…all of which is good for the soul and contributes to my happiness and my peace. It is another good gift from God!
So… shout out to all my friends and yours!! Let's take this thing for a spin as often as we can so we're sure to enjoy this ride!!
Having spent most of my adult life living alone, I understand what you mean about the enjoyment you feel when you share a part of your day/life with someone. As women we sometimes get caught up into thinking there has to be a significant other to share these joys, but a lot of times a giggle with a close girlfriend is much better. I'm definitely taking my friendships out for a spin more often.
ReplyDeleteThank you FRIEND for sharing. My journey has been completely opposite since I have never lived alone. My home and neighbors have always included my family which has been wonderful since I love being around people. The downside is that sometimes I don't seek the solitude necessary to replenish my soul and commune with GOD.
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